It bothers me so much that modern media (tv sitcoms, movies, etc) always portrays:
1. Pregnancy as a time of extreme woe and the most horrible physical burden a woman will ever experience
2. Pregnant women as angry, sweaty, uncontrollable, hate-their-husbands-for-knocking-them-up, exhausted, preg-zillas!
3. Birth as a psychotic whirlwind of screaming, terror, pain, and confusion.
Don't believe me? Have you ever seen even the TRAILERS for movies like The Back-Up Plan, Knocked Up and What to Expect When You're Expecting? Yes, these movies offer a look into the comical side of pregnancy and childbirth, but they also do a great disservice to this wonderful and trans-formative time in a woman's life by adding dramatic and warped elements of hysteria and fear into it as well. To me, and almost all the moms I know who have gone through pregnancy and birth, it's more like this:
1. Pregnancy is a beautiful time of physical, emotional, and spiritual transformation as a woman becomes a mother to her growing baby within her, speckled with moments of physical discomfort and hormonal fluctuations, thus making the
2. Pregnant woman a joyful, powerful, loving, nurturing mother who occasionally cries at commercials or begs for pickles.
3. and Birth is the single most monumental event of a woman's life, that yes, involves pain, but the focus of the event is not on that - it's on bringing a new life into the world. Amidst any pain or confusion that may be happening during childbirth, the focus is always on the joy of a new life. All rewards take sacrifice. They don't call it labor for nothing - it is work to give birth, don't get me wrong. But it's the most wonderful work a woman can do; it's a labor of LOVE to give birth to a baby!
It seriously drives me nuts that so many women, especially when they are newly pregnant, are made to feel afraid and uneducated about pregnancy and childbirth! And we can't blame them - they are bombarded with these images which paint over-the-top drama, pain, and horror into what in reality, is a very fun and exciting time for a woman. As a woman who's been through it, I can say - yes, there was morning sickness and unexplained crying, and towards the end, it was definitely a little difficult to breath with a tiny little foot always pressing up into my diaphragm, but overall pregnancy was a joy -filled journey for me and I fell more and more in love my my little growing bundle every day. And when the day came to give birth to her, again - yes, the contractions were not fun, and it sure was exhausting to be in labor for so long, and most of all, I really hate hospitals so I just wanted to hide in a closet until it was all over but overall, giving birth was all about love, and I felt overjoyed to have the privilege and blessing to bring a baby into the world!
What do you all think? Am I the only one bothered by these types of scenes in films and television??